The school thing--really needs to be up to you.

If it is something you want, feel that you can handle, and won't put ALL of the burden of house and kids on your W....

Up to you.

The other, definately a break down in communication. I like option number 2.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox