Who knows why she thinks the way she does...and who cares?
This is for you and your family.
If you really cared to make her happy RIGHT NOW, you'd get out of the house live somewhere else never see her again and send her your entire paycheck. Pay for the divorce, sell a kidney to get rid of the debt.
You'd be an idiot...so why are you considering NOT going to school to please her in that regard?
As for the note:
"Can I take the kids to the game tonight?"
OR
"I'm going to take the kids to the game tonight, anything I need to know?"
Your dynamic may be different...one might be better than the other.
One is asking, the other is telling/asking.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
