Struggling with Hope

[ericmsant2]

I would note things like how the added education will offer you improved employment security, possible open new fields of employment, cover how the tuition reimbursement works and that you really will only be paying for your books.

I did this Lost - it did not work. She acutally was quite upset.

quote]then ask her if there are reasons she feels that you shouldn't go. [/quote]

According to her, everyone had suggested that I go back to school in the past and I never listened. Now that "it is all about her" she i really does think I should go back to school. I caved again and said if she felt this way that I would not go back her response "do what you feel in your heart you need to do".
Personally, I think that by me going back to school I am showing her that I am changing and she does not want to see it. She feels jealous in my opinion that I am working on myself and changing and she can no longer bash me. But that is my opinon.

So in the household dynamic it was disrespectful to not inform (ask) her about the night out. To your defense it was last minute. So I would apologize....but only for the poor communication.

I agree, which was my last post. Having given this some thought I should have asked. I will approach her about it and appologize for my poor communication. Should I agree to ask going forward? I would much prefer that we agree that I will leave a note so that she knows. If I agree to asking then I am opening up the door for her to control more of the sitch. Thoughts?