I've had some divorced guys who are more spiritually in tune than I tell me it will be painful but the best thing that's ever happened to me. I'm having a hard time believing this.
I've heard the same and yes I have a hard time believing that. Especially in my sitch...married 17 yrs with 3 children.
I will say though that doing the work on myself had been an experience. I can now see all of the mistakes that i made over the years. So once you REALLY look at yourself I think you will feel a little better - the pain though does not go away right away. This just means though that you are human and do love ther person.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans