Going straight forward...antlers 6th thread.

[iwantittowork]

I hear you ant, and I am in exactly the same spot, her lawyer wants alimony, child support, me to pay for her housing, and utility bills, and then divide half of what is left of 'assets' and leave me holding the debt and bad investments. You can see I know where you are coming from. Anger is a natural reaction, and I have more than my share of it right now and trying to find a way to handle it. How we handle it is important. It seems completely unfair and it may well be, but ultimatley the courts will decide, the lawyers will get richer and there is not much we can do about it. I know I am supposed to be compasionate but I can't find it in me right now and that is something I had thought would never happen.