I feel for you man, I'm getting the same thing. My wife is seething with anger and I really don't get it. I'm starting to think that DB is like that game of Chinese handcuffs, the harder you pull the worse it gets. It's counterintuitive not to pull, it's against my nature. I wish you the best man, the hardest part for me in all of this is sort of like the serenity prayer, you don't know what you have control of and what you don't. Is this my fate? Am I just supposed to let it happen? Is it too late?
I've had some divorced guys who are more spiritually in tune than I tell me it will be painful but the best thing that's ever happened to me. I'm having a hard time believing this. I've learned that a few quiet days don't mean a whole lot, so even though I'm new here, the only thing I could suggest is to pull a 180 and the GAL and mean it. It's hard for me to do this right now but I'm trying like hell to GAL.
