Gman - have you ruled out a Mid Life Crisis for you W? If not, then you may want to post under the mid life section.
By the way you can do this buddy - you can. You just need to focus on YOU - remember you cannot control your W but you can control YOU. FTR I know how hard this is...I have been at for 6 months and see no signs of change - none. Whatever you do...DO NOT preasure her.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans