To date, or since the bomb if you will - I have not taken the kids overnight so this is the first time that I have done it. In hindsight I probably should have asked her but it really was last minute. So - should I approach and appologize....
"W - this morning S told me that you were upset that I had D and dog with me. I would like you to know that it was a last minute thing and understand why you may have been upset. I appologize that YOU were upset. I did leave you a note, but going forward I will let you know in advance that we will be staying the night or at a min call you and leave you a message". How does this sound?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans