The weekend was good. I had the kids this weekend and I thoroughly enjoy having them. They are changing and developing so fast right now it's amazing.
We got rained in on Saturday so it was primarily a house day. I got them and the dog out for a walk between down pours which was good.
On Sunday I took them to the big park for a hike with the dog a friend and his wife joined me with their dogs as well. Beautiful day on Sunday. I've really developed a great fathering game since the SHTF in Oct. and it is obvious the kids love to be with me. But I am just way below average at cooking. I can grill and BBQ with the best of them but I suck indoors. I need to work on this skill.
I'm finding the "going dark" to be surprisingly easy. Most likely because I feel better the less contact I have with the W. We haven't exhanged a call or text since I saw her at session #4 on Weds.
I still think about her and her behavior with OM's often unfortunately but the sting seems to be waning. There are those moments, however, where I just feel really pissed off at her for what she has done. I have a feeling that is the way it is going to be for a long time.
Hope your weekend was a good one as well.
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)