But you do see the difference when you focus on being more content and work on you. You can control only yourself. While he does have to find his own way, you have said that eh follows your lead. Kalni is happy, H is more relaxed and getting happy.
Keep up the Good feelings".
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory