I guess maybe that since he left there is a sense of relief from the pressure. The tention was unbearable before he left. He was either leashing out at everyone or withdrew and did not talk to anyone. I felt emotionaly and verbaly abused and was walking on egg shells. That's no way to live.... Since he left he is actualy very nice and almost "loving" when we see each other.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
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