Thanks for the reply 25. My next post will journal a conversation we had today which will address some of the points you made.

Long story short, I tend to assume the worst from my W just because that is what the last year has conditioned me to do. Being lied to, deceived and having agreements broken completely changed my approach to "giving her the benefit of the doubt".

As I posted before, I'm working on this, as I am almost always wrong when I assume the worst.

I know nothing wildly inappropriate happened in the times my kids were exposed to the OM. More later.


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EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09