W: I'm not trying to use S8 against you, but when I ask you to look at it and you hesitate and say "i don't know" it makes me think that you don't want to, and I can't help but think that you want to punish me for what I'm doing, and one way to do that would be to not help me if I need help
Not punishing directly.... but certainly showing consequences for poor decisions. If she wants out, see what life will be like without you.
