That's great that you took the higher stance and still wished him luck despite his ignoring phase again. You are trying to foster a R with him despite him and . Hopefully it's just related to all the stress of the test and it will pass as soon as it's over and you will be able to get down to business if he's coming home or not. Your idea about meeting with him next week is probably good b/c you're right, there are a lot of specifics that need to be worked in advance if he is to come home. By that time, he'll need to make a decision of where he is going. By that time too, maybe you can even take the stance with him that no decision is a decision b/c he can't wait until the day of to decide with you. Things have to be put in place and will need to be decided by that meeting on Wednesday. But I guess, we shouldn't get too far in front of ourselves. Let's see how this week goes first, right? But hopefully you'll hear back from H soon. To not respond is rude and just plain frustrating! But you've done what you can in showing love, so you're right, there is no point in you continuing to try to push the communication - it's in his lap now.
Glad you have better classes this trimester though. That will make it easier on you no matter what happens next week. I sure your students appreciate a happy teacher too. =P
Regarding S, just keep showing him all the love you can. Like Kalni was saying, I'm sure it's just a phase. This whole thing with H is obviously hard on him too, so just snuggle with and love him as much as you can, but continue to try to encourage independence.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
