I would appreciate you not using our son against me like this. You know how hard this is for me. Don't you think I want to help you? You don't know what I'm thinking, if you would like to know you can ask. Taking money out for this may or may not make me "happy". It's not your place to assume I will or won't be. It's not about money for me. It's about a lot more.
I understand your desperation. It's not a good feeling when you don't know what else to do.
W: I'm not trying to use S8 against you, but when I ask you to look at it and you hesitate and say "i don't know" it makes me think that you don't want to, and I can't help but think that you want to punish me for what I'm doing, and one way to do that would be to not help me if I need help.
