Ant, I can relate to what you talking about. Somehow we must endure.

I believe what Gypsy is saying is, trying not to let the financial burden change who we are, and that we can can overcome it.

I am having a tough time today accepting that myself....

M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."