I think it definetly involves healing and processing what happened. A year and a half after the divorce, I feel ready. it is good to know that I was attractive to guys earlier on but I was no where near ready emotionally.
Maybe it wasn't always flirt guy holding back but me too to some degree. Funny what you see when you are a little further down the road.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory