remember, calm, cool and confident, the ball is in your court now and she knows it, you don't need to come off as a controlling a$$hole, in fact the opposite is even better, you're happy, you have assumed control of the direction in your life, let go of the resentment, it's no longer necessary.
She has about half of her stuff out of here now.
The hard part for me is the kids, parttime with my own children is still hard to swallow.
I started taking apart our bed lastnight after I thought she left. ( she had been moving all day) She came back in and Said she wanted to make the bed! I said don't bother it's going bye bye. She said why, I said i want to remodel this room and master bath to my liking. It will help remove any of the feelings that linger on this side of the house.
She said that I wasn't looking at this situation the right way. I told her I was looking at it the way I needed to look at it - OVER, time to move on and stop being messed around on by someone.
She says " I don't think it's over, maybe for you but not for me"
WTF everybody is she just trying to pin it on me now?
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
