DC will be a great help. Highly recommended.

However, your STBX is probably too deep in the fog still for it to have any benefit for her.

Oh, and the "sermon", just more fodder for batchitt insanity.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.