I know what you mean about the FB thing and being left out of the decision or the process. I'm right there too.
In fact not even her Mom knew anything until she had made up her mind. Sadly it was her friends, some divorced and one a D attorney, and OM that helped her come to her "decision."
Well- the beauty of a unilateral decision is that they have to live w/ it and any doubts or what not.
I don't really need to worry about the what if's anymore- I was willing, she wasnt.
