Hi IWITW.

Things are going OK. Had the kids for the weekend and now I'm back to work today. I'm trying to keep the legal side of this divorce separate from the other aspects of it; smart people here have mentioned on this board that they really are separate...so I'm trying to keep them separate. The lagal side is a real b!tch though, and it hurts...bad. Anyway, she knows how I feel and I know how she feels.
Met with the GAL week before last...haven't heard anything else yet.
I'm gonna get my a$$ kicked financially in this thing. Not much I can do about it but take it on the chin. Gotta go on though. I built our retirement account up singlehandedly over the years to over 6 figures, got a lot of equity in the house, got a lot of belongings that she left behind in the house (furniture, etc.) and said she didn't want any of it...now she wants "half" of everything, even my firearms!
I paid for her college aducation.
Spilt milk now.
It hurts though, that it's come to this.

You asked! :-)


ps - thanks for checking on me. How are you man?


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.