Congratulations on your baby boy! As you work on just dealing with the near present, be thinking of finding a replacement dad for your kids... dating in 6-9 months maybe? What do you think?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004