Husband in Crisis - what do I do?

[peacetoday]

It is difficult to decide what to do
nc or not
I always had such a hard time with figuring out the right strategy
just try to take care of yourself
eat, exercise, pray rest and sleep
talk to a few trusted friends or go to Counseling
read
trust yourself
you will know what strategy to try or keep
sometimes I would go NO or dim
xh would try to connect--I would not answer
then sometimes I would be available
very supportive of him..listening caring ect
but either way..did not work for me
XH still saw the cahnges and left to pursue his journey
I havw kept the changes now and they are very beneficial in all my R
all my R are working
so this journey is for us
lwearn all you can about MLC
manke whatever changes make sense
probaly for me being available to my xh was helpful for my change
I am glad we got to converse many times in the new me
going dark was beneficial for me to detatch
peace