THank you for that information HB--very imformative
I spoke with my xMIL last night--she called me all of a sudden she likes me now--never used to she told me about OW and XH while they were there in december
she said xh ow wife used to offer xh (a recovering alcoholic of 20 years) drinks like putting the straw of a margarita to his lips ect..he would sip it- hes drinking now just to show the maturtity and wisdom level of the OW and how she needed him at her level even if it meant for him to drink again she needed control peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow