THank you for that information HB--very imformative

I spoke with my xMIL last night--she called me
all of a sudden she likes me now--never used to
she told me about OW and XH while they were there in december

she said xh ow wife used to offer xh (a recovering alcoholic of 20 years) drinks
like putting the straw of a margarita to his lips ect..he would sip it-
hes drinking now
just to show the maturtity and wisdom level of the OW
and how she needed him at her level even if it meant for him to drink again
she needed control
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow