Fri night W texted she had a "Big Problem and needed the dos to stay at the house." I ignored... 10 minutes later she texts "Nevermind"
Sat afternoon she texts "Guess you're not concerned about our friendship." No reply...
I did take a call from a Private number and it was W. Received some spew about ignoring her texts.
W said she can no longer live where she was living and that she figured things out.
She attacked me for not helping w/ "my" dogs; that if the roles were reversed and I wanted out of the M, she would gladly do what she could to help- "that's just the kind of person I am" she said.
I explained that I would happily take care of the dogs if she were not having an A. She quickly said it's not all her fault that this is happening- that her needs went unmet for too long. And, "I'm sorry if I'm not going by the rules." She also gave the lines "I'm moving on w/ my life, and I deserve to be happy." Which I somewhat validated and also cautioned her.
I validated and assured her that they would have been met had she communicated them to me and sought MC.
Sadly I was not very calm during the conversation, I appologized for getting loud and let her know how frustrating it is for me to be in this situation...I hate speaking to her b/c I know that it stresses her out, and I know that I'm the one that ends up not able to sleep, while she gets to enjoy another man and feel loved.
UGH-
I should not have answered the call.
My father e-mailed W yesterday about her loan- he's also offering to buy back her engagement ring "since it's no longer needed" and will buy down the amount owed.
I don't know how that went over, and I don't care.
At this point its full steam ahead for D.
Had a great weekend otherwise saw a few movies w/ friends, played golf, and cleand the eff out of the house.
