I agree with flowmom. No need for a 2x4. It's good to let her see your teeth every once in a while. A little growl now and again is ok.

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It's likely that we never had a good marriage to save in the first place.


I doubt that. And I doubt you believe it either. This may be where you are now, but that's not likely where you have always been.

Keep looking forward, on your new life. If she wants to come back (and SHE has to WANT to), she knows where to find you.

Hang in there. You're doing fine.

Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current