Sandi
Thanks for the encouragement. I must confess that while I am worried about what will happen as a result of meeting the OMW, I have felt more content in myself since contacting her. I think the advice given has made me realise that W & OM cannot be allowed to exert control over the situation by using our emotions against us. I expect that the next week or so will be a rough ride & I need to protect the boys from as much fallout as possible. If things will soon be out in the open, the issue wil be forced. It will either push W & OM together before they were ready or OM may back off. Time to don a tin hat & see what evolves!

Last edited by Painterman; 03/01/10 11:24 AM.