Ok, girl, you already know what to do - R talk time! He's putting it out there, and you are running from the discussion. Time to sort out what you want and need, then figure out how to communicate that with H. Remember to listen and validate too. But first go through all your fears and hopes both in your journal. Sort out all the dark corners of your mind on this so you are clear with yourself. Then, time to give H the cliff notes version
