Finally realised that he is having an A!!

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Thanks Puppy for the input. I agree, I would love to expose the A to her H. However, I am really nervous and have never done anything so bold before. I am also nervous of the reaction from my H. He has a massive temper and I know that he will just go mad e.g. shouting etc. The last time I upset him he withheld my maintenance.

Any suggestions how I go about doing this, I only know his contact details via Facebook.

Also I know I will be asked why I contacted the OW's H - how do I respond to this.

I know that I need to stand up to H, for once, just a little nervous.