"I knew you would eventually find out about him. He and I talked about it and we discussed how much it would hurt you once you found out, but WE decided that it would be ok."
Brother,
I heard the exact words from my own wife on 26th February 2008 when I discovered OM waiting for her at an airport. She had no idea I would be there and when she saw me, the look on her face said 1000 words. OM scarpered before I saw him and I had a one hour chat with W. The worst day of my life, ever.
Sorry for this mate, I really am.
Originally Posted By: Quart9
My W's mindset is: once she took off her rings and got me outta our apartment she was single again and she has been living like this for almost 3 months now. In her warped sense of being single she feels her sole responsibility is to take care of her happiness and this means it is ok to date and sleep with OM even if they are both still married.
Mine was exactly the same.
This, and all of the other situations I see on here are like watching the same movie over and over again.
Option 2 is the only option for you Quart9. You have to take martial law of your life and be the one calling the shots. Know that six months or one year from now, with the help of people here and elsewhere, you will be in a much better place.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
