Rhody...have you thought about telling H you are going to use his share of refund to help with HIS portion of the mortgage?
I just did a budget where I listed all our bills and divided them in half. (WAH, MLC, is living 150 miles north at cabin)...I got a call this morning with a question from H...Why do we still have a phone (landline) and if you don't watch alot of TV why do we need the 'dishnetwork'? To which I said...if we got rid of landline we would need to change our cell phone plan which would cost more and I do watch TV at night. I should have told him he could sell his 4-wheeler and then we wouldn't have that payment!
Good news about your brother, sorry to hear about your dad.
Hang in there and don't let him bully you about the refund.
M55 H55 my D31 H D30 1st met her when she was 25 M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D 1bomb 6/05 2bomb 7/08 3bomb 2/10 moved up north
