Holy Crap! Didn't expect THIS!

[Dom R]

Lotus: he doesnt "need" roommate to budge. it's his house.
Unless they have some kind of legal rental agreement, which I GREATLY DOUBT, all he legally has to do is say, "get the hell out of my house".
(but I Am Not A Lawyer(tm)(R)(s)(Pat.Pend))

Trixi:
once again, ponder, "what works, and what doesnt".

this "for the right reasons", is garbage and you know it.

Suggestion: Tell him you're not going to put up with HIS crap, any more, unless he's willing to put up with YOUR crap. From now on. permenantly.

Suggestion: Tell him you arent going to court with him tomorrow unless he grows up, and makes a decision. Otherwise he's on his own. Tomorrow, and for the rest of his life.

then STOP TALKING TO HIM.
Any time he even attempts to make contact with you, your only reply should be something along the lines of, "Have you decided to grow up yet?"

If his reply is ANYTHING BUT "yes", your reply is

*click*.


To LolaL: she's already tried the "halfway" approach to this.
It's gotten her "halfway" reconciled.


To Trixi: THIS is the other "bolt of lighting" that he needs.
an he's been needing it, for 2 years.