Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Ok- WH suggests we do something as family...
I could bring up a couple of activities in conversation like the children's museum or a restaurant

WH suggests we cook something together...
I could ask him for ideas for what to cook for lunch or dinner, maybe on his day off that he spends here?

WH asks about my activities..
I could say "man, I had fun last night!: (lol- is this cheating to set him up like that?"


I have no clue how I could get him to touch me/ not pull away unless I brush past him on purpose