The thing is mb28, it WILL do him good, but you need to massage his brain into the right mindset FIRST

You can't just HAND it to him... that's pursuit... he's giong to see that as YOU trying to TRAP him with mumbo jumbo.

If he FINDS it secretly by reading your computer screen or your freind "secretly" passes it to him saying "Don't tell your wife I gave you her video... But..."

THEN he will watch it... he has to feel like HE is SPYING on YOU.

He does NOT want YOU to SEE him PURSUE MARRIAGE... if you catch him pursuing marriage overtly he will RUN like a frightened rabbit...

he needs to SNEAK the video from you ... so you find a way to LET him. lol