Thanks, FM! I scanned the thread you posted
here are 4:!

WH suggests we do something as family
WH will touch me/ not pull away if we touch
WH asks me about my activities/whereabouts (I want him to be curious....)
WH suggests we cook something together

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004