Post any questions you might have to me here....

[flowmom]

remember your journey is on YOUR timetable, now, not his. As long as you focus on yourself, you'll continue to grow and change. Also remember things will be fine NO matter what happens; even if it doesn't look like it now.

Those are good words for me. My anxiety is higher in the past few days so that points me back to working on my own growth. I've hated the idea that H is calling all the shots here, so I love what you wrote (esp the words in green). I will bring myself back to those words when I'm feeling bashed around by H's choices.

By the way, the link to my current thread is in the signature line of my posts

Thanks for helping me understand.