Aver, great plan for support at the meeting!!! Can't wait to hear how it goes! I dont know what The Work will advise you to do, but I suggest visualizing seeing "gf" with X so that you will be more prepared and suffer less shock. Good luck!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004