Vacillating husband

[newmama]

Ruined, first: do not take the insults to heart. Your H was drunk AND he is depressed. Both of those conditions warp perspective, reality and cause people to do or say things they don't mean.

I agree with Flowmom- if a friend could talk to him about his depression, that would be good.

Ok but now you need to avoid him-I believe you that he never slapped you before. But beside from keeping yourself safe, you should go NC so you don't say anything you might regret and so you can detach.