The problem is, if you say anything open ended, they will read that as "File for Divorce Please"... they WANT you to say it... so you only have to HALF say it for them to ACT on it...

Even mb28 taking her ring off was pretty much telling him to file for D...

Waywards feel miserable and just want that to END.. they don't CARE if they will regret the WAY it ends in the long term... they are ONLY interested in how THEY FEEL right NOW...

If you give them a gun, they WILL pull the trigger...

So don't even give them a bullet... don't even give them a SPOON or they will shove it down their throat...