Flowmom, that friend is a keeper!! And she said such good things!
She's the best ever.
Originally Posted By: newmama
he is skeptical of your changes like he said, but I think also intrigued. It sounds like he wants to see if you are being civil just to try to get him back, or will you stay civil even if he is dating, meaning are you playing a game or is your nice behavior permanent...is it for real? And what else could be causing you to be so patient and kind?? Why is Flowmom handling this so well?
Yeah. It is obviously an issue for him that I'm changing, but I'm just wondering if for him it's about figuring out how much I'll punish him in the D (rather than him wondering if I've made permanent changes therefore some hope for a renewed M).
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
