Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Sandi,

Yes, it's all very confusing and doesn't make sense to me either. Someone I know asked me if I thought my W's recent diagnosis of diabetes has anything to do with it. That maybe she doesn't want me to have to deal with it? I can't believe that though. I have be nothing but 100% supportive to her with dealing with the diabetes. I would stand by her side through absolutely anything. Anyway, don't know what else it could be so I'll continue on the path I am on and be patient as I agree with you that it seems to be working...small steps that they are but I'll take them because of my love for my W.

Sandi wrote,
"Do what works....and what is right."

Very wise advice and speaks the truth. Doing what works is the what we are all looking for but doing what is right makes me feel good about how I handle the sitch.

By the way Sandi, I wanted to ask you how you are doing? You are always giving of yourself on here to help others and I'm not sure if anyone ever asks you how you are doing? You are an incredibly strong, courageous and giving woman. I cannot properly express how much you have given to me in my sitch and I'm so very thankful that you continue to give me guidance. It sounds like you have a wonderful M. What a truly wonderful example of a M that was able to endure issues through love (tough love at times ). Your story gives me hope and resolve to never give up on my M. I haven't yet begun to fight!