But Allen, I thought we are supposed to validate their feelings (without agreeing to divorce) which is a 180 from arguing with them?????

Last edited by newmama; 03/01/10 02:30 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004