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[awest1217]

Yeah I am pretty impressed, and I cleaned the house, did laundry, ironed, and went through S's toys to pull out the ones we can throw away, give to my nephew for a while, and put away because they are the baby toys. Very successful day!

H still has not text me at all today (de ja vu from last week). I did text him midafternoon because I do want to foster a good relationship so I know I gave it my all. I think i will text him tomorrow morning just to say good luck on his students tests since they start tomorrow (not that he can help them, but still), but that will be it. I am not going to ask him over like last week or anything.

I am also toying with next wednesday (the wednesday before the move out) asking him to dinner so I can find out what he is going to do and ask questions from there because we haven't discussed the big stuff about him coming home. I mean he knows the biggest stuff...no OW...but we haven't discussed S, our schedules, how this is going to change our lives. A lot has changed since last year when he left. S is a very different kid. He was 18 months when H left and doesn't remember H ever living at home. S couldn't speak his mind or express his feelings so a lot to talk about there that has nothing to do with OW. Thoughts?

My only other concern is S is very much not wanting to sleep in his bed again. He is very cuddly (which I don't mind since I knwo that won't last long), but starting to get bad again. He wants to be with me again 24/7 when we are at home. I haven't talked to him about H coming home, but maybe it is that H hasn't been around again. He saw H a lot in January and now again nothing really besides once a week so I guess this would fit the pattern. Those of you who have kept up with my sitch, do you agree or have other ideas?

Good weekend and not upset really about H because sad to say...this is normal.