Honestly, I think your reaction was pretty natural. The anger that we feel as the LBS is understandable, and it is one of shi* or get off the pot. We can deal with either way, it is the unknown factor that is the worst part.
If I may, I think the best thing you can do now IS back off of him. Let him really see what life will be like without you. YOu don't have eto be secretive, or date others, that is not what I am suggesting, but don't be too readily available. Even just saying you need some time to yourself to "think".
Let him think that maybe you are having second thoughts, and see how it feels. Don't cut contact, but be nonchalant. If he asks whats wrong, use the woman addage "I'm fine..." that seems to always get them. They know something is wrong, but also know with that you are not going to tell him.
It is okay you to take a step back, and catch your breath. I agree, I would love to be in your shoes, but I also know from others that reconciling is the easy part. It is the piecing that is tough.
(((Hugs)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
