When I go back and think about the past 4 months I do see differences. She calls me now instead of emailing. She meets with me face to face without her family in attendance. She shares some personal information with me now. Some other small things too.
See, it took four months for her to warm up just that much, so that gives you a clue about how long of a process it is. But.....I still think there is hope if there is no OM involved. Something just doesn't add up. She has fought tooth & nail to keep from talking to you without having another person with her. She hasn't been very clear about her reasons for leaving. And, that is one thing that is bugging you! I mean, what she has said could go for a lot of women. Most of us have had to deal with the reasons she gave. So, I still feel like there is something she is not revealing.
Anyway, you seem to be doing what is working for now, so hang with that and don't keep trying to figure out something different. Do what works....and what is right.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
