I'm thinking that he's afraid to move forward with D because he doesn't want to deal with me punishing him for it (which he expects based on his coworkers' experiences). That's why he hasn't been moving things forward.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
