Thanks CTH.

I think it just felt like more of the same (him waffling AGAIN). I do have an opportunity (hopefully) that many people don't get. I shouldn't squander it.

And I did dig in to his state of mind at an inopportune time.

In fact, I took a nap earlier and that helped me a great deal. Just got back from the store where I picked up several different post-it notes in different colors so that I can write down what needs to be done in all these different areas of my life and then start chipping away at them. And they are all things that need to be done regardless of what H says.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing