I just thought I'd add that my ex considered porn to be equivalent to actually going out and being physically involved with another person. That may color my thinking some.
There is something slightly different in my mind between porn and an online webcam session with someone you're wanting to be involved with, and maybe have been involved with in real life. Clearly both are destructive though.
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."