I'm not trying to stress the legal part, either, (just threw that in) but I find it hard to believe a man would think it is just as bad for his W to physically give another man oral sex......rather than her see OM on her computer!

So.....what does that say about men looking at porn? That is what I find rather amazing on this board. Men are having fits whenever they discover that the W is on the computer with other men, but it doesn't seem all that bad for him to look at porn. (And, that's not to say that I endorse women talking or camsexing with OM)

You are right, this is MI's thread and I apologize to him for taking up this space to discuss pros & cons of the cybersex issues, but I need to know how men see this before I can respond with any "advise". I would be interested in knowing if other men agreed with you or had different thoughts. Might be a topic for a thread, IDK.




It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!