Expose the affair to OW's H. Even if they are separated, he has a right to know. He needs to make decisions about his life and his marriage based on REALITY, not illusions.
Originally Posted By: lea74
Hi, xxx I am XXXX, xxxx wife or soon to be ex-wife. I thought it would be a good idea if we could chat.
No.
If you know without any doubt in your mind that they are having an affair, you simply and matter of factly say "Mr. OWH, there is no easy wal to tell you this, my H is having an affair with your W".
That's it.
There is a 99% chance that he will thank you for telling him.
Originally Posted By: lea74
Any suggestions - never done anything this bold before.
Neither did I until my W had an affair.
I don't regret exposing her antics for a single nanosecond.
Good luck.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
